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I’m Not Going to Clean the Bathroom Today

I’m Not Going to Clean the Bathroom Today

I’m Not Going to Clean the Bathroom Today

  

Each night I lull myself to sleep,

mentally arranging virtual blocks, 

tasks to be done tomorrow,

plans for a more productive future.


They form a comforting wall,

protecting me 

from the reality of 

so many things

left undone

each day.


Plans for today:

Get up at 9.

Check

Feed the cat, light a fire, make the bed.

Check

Pray for a minute, give thanks, ask for guidance.

Check

Play with my phone, solve Wordle in 3.

Check

Drink water, a smoothie, coffee.

Check

Clean the bathroom.

Nah

Write a poem about not cleaning the bathroom.

Check.

Winter

I’m Not Going to Clean the Bathroom Today

I’m Not Going to Clean the Bathroom Today

  

I trudge through a field

under a grey winter sky

looking for unharvested sustenance

among the bare stalks of last season’s crops

while the dark shadow of Death

lurks behind the tree line

He opened his roster a few years ago

and pointed to my name

I thought it would be much later

if at all

Now he toys with me

taking those I love instead

coming closer

then receding

inviting me to his joyless dance

Pretending not to see him 

I navigate the patches of snow and mud

hoping to find a persimmon tree

or another sunrise.

The Joy Bringers

The Joy Bringers

The Joy Bringers

  

“Why do they have so many children?

They can’t even support themselves!”

I know why! I know!


Anthropologists say they’re repopulating the tribe,

hedging against child mortality.

It’s the persistence of life.

Yeah, yeah, true as far as it goes.

But there’s another reason why

a devastated people don’t want

the pills from the clinic.


It’s more personal:

the children are the joy bringers.

They shriek and giggle,

run around and love fully.

They are silly and cute

and unpredictably funny.

With them, the elder ones laugh 

from deep in their bellies.

Without them,

their wry laughs

are brittle as late autumn leaves.

Walking Away

The Joy Bringers

The Joy Bringers

  

Never walk away from children

or injustice

those are exceptions

to the power of leaving well enough alone


So very often though

coming back later or not at all

is the best thing

the wisest thing

leaving our subconscious to sort it out

or to reap a reprieve only time can deliver


Miraculous isn’t it

how that quiet space can

diffuse arguments

solve puzzles

find lost items

remember a word or a name

neutralize toxicity

finish a poem

Friend

To My Son-in-law

To My Son-in-law

   We became friends

meeting for tea

talking for hours

She liked every kind of music

except Chinese wedding flute

which she said was

too nasally


I shared about my mom

who was 94

and owned a Chinese wedding flute

how life without her 

was unimaginable

but inevitable


I’d like to meet her

my friend said

so when she does pass

I’ll know who you lost

To My Son-in-law

To My Son-in-law

To My Son-in-law

This woman

beautiful and fierce

has endured the grief

of ten lifetimes.

She’s chosen you.

Be proud and afraid.

This will not be easy.


First, no trifling,

no games to prove you have options.

None will be better than her,

so grow up.

Fast.

You’re in the big leagues now.


She wants what you have to give:

strength

tenderness

respect 

vulnerability.

She has all this and more for you,

in great measure.


She’s been waiting for you

far too long, 

so be patient. 

Bring it all

with an open heart

and she’ll meet you there.


Hit and Run

To My Son-in-law

Hit and Run

The latest poem was hit by oncoming traffic

and the page is littered with the pieces.

Similes lie broken on their sides.

A long metaphor, twisted beyond recognition,

has landed near red shards of description.


There are entire stanzas which make no sense.

They held promise but fell back to earth as banal musings,

trite conclusions and subjects not suited for poetry.


The poet has crawled from the wreckage,

her future uncertain.


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